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Single Lovelies
Food is essential in our lives from survival to socializing. It shapes our relationships, and our food experiences from childhood through adulthood reveal powerful truths about who we are. By aligning food with dating, Denise has uncovered insights that help her coach both men and women toward better, richer, more aligned dating experiences. Her approach blends real-world dating lessons with the nuanced cues only food can reveal, giving her clients a fresh perspective and a real advantage in choosing the right partner.
Food Talks
Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong Date… Learn from real-life anecdotes, using humor to convey practical modern-day dating wisdom.
Expert Guidance for Building
Meaningful Relationships
Denise Tomasetti, a born-and-raised New Yorker, built her career as a sharp, intuitive businesswoman in the heart of New York City. But her most transformative work didn’t come from the boardroom it came from a life-changing revelation about dating that inspired her book, FOOD TALKS.
After 20 years of navigating the modern dating scene, Denise uncovered a truth hiding in plain sight: food never lies or as she likes to say, FOOD TALKS. By tuning into the subtle clues within every food experience the choices, habits, manners, and behaviors around a meal she decoded a secret language that reveals who a person truly is.
Smart, direct, and unapologetically authentic, Denise is redefining
the way we date… one bite at a time.
Want to stop wasting time
on the wrong date
There is a way: Food Talks
Combining the nuances of food and dating reveals how choices and actions around food can uncover deep insights into a person’s values, personality, and relationship compatibility. For Denise, dinners with her ex-boyfriends’ mothers turned out to be the most honest introductions she never got. Their mothers’ food whispered truths about the men she was dating. Not only did their food speak volumes all food experiences do. Whether you’re having coffee, cocktails, or a meal in a restaurant, bar, lounge, at a family or friend’s home, or even in your own kitchen. In the end, you’ll know whether your date’s ingredients are “Tasty” or “Not Tasty” for your plate.
Explore Our Recent Episodes
Welcome to Dating? FOOD TALKS an insightful dating channel where food becomes your secret tool for understanding human behavior. I’m Denise Tomasetti, and I’ll show you how people’s actions around food reveal their true character their patience, generosity, empathy, and values.
Thursday? Ready Set Date
Welcome to the very first episode of Dating? Food Talks. I am Denise Tomasetti, and I am here to help you stop wasting time on the wrong dates and start spotting real connections.
We often get distracted by the “perfect date” or the right words, but the real signs are usually sitting right across the table. In this series, I decode the truth about dating through the language of food. Because once you learn to listen, you won’t just hear words… you will understand who is really sitting across the table.
In this episode you will learn
- How to stop guessing and start seeing the truth about your date.
- Why the “language of food” reveals character.
- How to spot a real connection before the check comes.
Our Satisfied Clients
Coaching with Denise feels like having a mirror and a roadmap. She’s real, funny, genuine, and starts by helping you understand yourself before anything else. Her personalized exercises helped me slow down, reflect, and see my own patterns clearly.
She makes dating feel intentional and simple, offering honest guidance without sugarcoating. Denise is supportive, direct, and truly cares about helping people stop wasting time. If her YouTube channel is anything like her coaching, it will be warm, wise, funny, and incredibly authentic.
Laura Castro
Client
Our Satisfied Clients
Denise is one of those rare people whose kindness shows in every interaction. She makes others feel seen, valued, and truly cared for. No matter what kind of day I am having, she listens with warmth and gives her full attention.
What sets her apart is her thoughtful, intelligent, and comforting advice. When life feels overwhelming, she brings clarity and calm, offering perspective that helps me see possibilities I might have missed.
Denise has supported me through some of my hardest moments. Her empathy, sincerity, and generosity make her a true treasure. She is not only a wonderful friend but also a source of strength and wisdom in my life.
Jennifer Sitomer
Client
Our Satisfied Clients
I highly recommend Denise Tomasetti as a life coach. Her super hero talent lies in her ability to clear the fog and put a spotlight on the roadblocks that we create for ourselves. In addition to this, she is loving, caring and a very funny person.
Signed, a very happy
Ann Dopico
Client
Our Satisfied Clients
Working with Denise has been an experience I won’t soon forget. Her guidance in both self-development and building relationships has helped me see myself and my potential with great humility, and a needed dash of comic relief.
What sets her apart is her rare ability to truly listen. Her insights are thoughtful and grounded and she offers practical tools that work
If you’re looking for someone who can guide you with heart, honesty, experience, and exceptional skill, I cannot recommend her highly enough. She is truly one of a kind.
Heather Sherin
Client
